When any relationship breaks down irretrievably it becomes very difficult to let go. World over the breakdown of a relationship can cause havoc in peoples lives even though it is not the most discussed issue everywhere. A divorce or separation is often so painful that a lot of mechanisms may come into play to help us deal with them.Though some of them look wonderful yet what they do is basically hide the pain that is difficult to bear and which continues to linger.We could tell ourselves a lot of lies that ‘it is over’but is it? DISTANCE A solution commonly found between partners is to move apart physically.

It could be a temporary shift to parents or a friends home, or it could be moving to a different location, like taking different apartments or moving cities. It could also mean staying away from common friends hoping that the ties that bind them would break. However, it is a…