It is a well-known fact that for the treatment of self and family members, a doctor must consult another doctor.Recently, I had a very bad experience in this process and ultimately came to the conclusion that it's better not to disclose identity in future. The other side of the coin is highly appreciable experience in consultation with some other doctors.

I am confused and discussed it with my doctor friend who also had the similar view. Please guide, what is the right approach?